Why can't we these days just accept who we are and be grateful with what we have been dealt? It is a pretty controversial subject I know, however what worries me sometimes is the reasons of some people and I stress some people for going down the route of having these procedures.
Do we women realise that men generally like women with curves? I think possibly not! Society and the media tells us to be as thin as possible and how acceptable it is to be a size zero. Do we think that men(or women) like huge lips filled with botox? Some might, some might not. Do we think that men(or women) like false breast implants? Again some do, some don't. Whatever we consider doing to ourselves as enhancements I would seriously urge everyone to really think about WHY we are doing it! If it is so we attract love, attention and feel better about ourselves I question that this is not the right reason. I will advise one thing though to be safe - to contact the British Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons http://www.baaps.org.uk/ you are guaranteed the right advice and qualified surgeons and the right advice on any procedures you are considering http://www.baaps.org.uk/procedures.
A lot of a person's beauty comes from the inside ... it has taken me many many years to realise this and to suffer a serious car accident to shock me into understanding that it is not all about how you look! Making the best of what we have is a MUST and looking after ourselves however I promise you that just because we may have had certain surgical procedures or enhancements it sure doesn't guarantee that we will be accepted by others or loved any more because of it. What people really look for if they are indeed genuine themselves is honestly, inner beauty and someone who is comfortable in their own skin.
Can we honestly say we are happy with who we are?
Love Shari x