Is Fear Blocking You From Moving Forward?Is FEAR preventing YOU from moving forward to enjoy life? It is for many people. It is like a vicious circle, we feel fear about something, which in my own humble opinion is often not reality, but something we create in our own minds. Often what we are afraid of doesn't actually exist. We feel the fear, we don't believe in ourselves, we have a lack of self worth and a "why would anyone want to listen to me" or "why would anyone want to take me on board for a job or relationship" etc and often we worry about being accepted by people and we try to please people. This all creates negativity and ultimately can lead to an unsuccessful outcome.
If we feel fear however tell ourselves that it is not reality and we have nothing to be afraid of and embrace the feeling of apprehension and turn in into excitement or a positive emotion see how it can change the cycle! If we couple this with feeling some belief in ourselves, a feeling that we ARE worthy of good things (and why not) and also that anyone would be lucky to have us in their lives or to employ us and so on, then this HAS to lead to a successful outcome - it is all positive rather than negative.
If we are feeling lack of self worth, self doubt, fear etc, then we need to do what I call "Breaking The Cycle" this can be done by looking deep into the reasons WHY we feel this way and what has caused us to feel like this. Working towards finding a way to LET GO of these emotions as they simply serve no purpose can dramatically change our thoughts and in turn how we feel about life and ourselves. Imagine if we let go what a weight could be lifted that could enable us to move forward lighter, free from some of the baggage we have carried around for so long!
Having suffered a horrific car accident back in 1986, crushing the entire right hand side of my face and losing an eye imagine the fear I felt going out of the house even to the shop or petrol station or just a visit to the doctor. It took a lot of courage, determination and self belief to eventually turn the negative emotions associated with lack of self worth, acceptance, huge fear etc but I did it in the end and am so much more at peace from realising that there are no boundaries, there is nothing to be afraid of and just to be yourself is all that is needed!
Love Shari x